Evening comrades,
Winnie and Piglet once had a conversation that went like this...
Piglet: How do you spell love?
Winnie: You don't spell it. You feel it.
Childish as it may seem, these Hundred Acre Woodlands are speaking the truth. Love isn't a fact, nor an opinion. Love isn't necessarily one specific feeling. Love is whatever you want to make of it. It's heartbreak. It's pain. It's also joy and happiness. And laughter. Nothing is, necessarily, not love, but nothing is definite love either. Love is not definitive, nor indecisive. It just is.
The thing that's tricky with love is that it can dwindle, yet it will linger in the background. You need to be able to let love go, so that it can grow. That, my friends, is true love. True love is when you can turn a blind eye to love and let it become unexpected. Love is when you can stand still, and let the world spin so madly on. This kind of love is not that type that makes you want to die, but it's the type that might keep you awake. It asks for advice, and becomes more beautiful in every second.
Love is the type of thing that lends and gives. It is everything and absolutely nothing at the same time. Love, my friends, is what you make it. What you feel should be true, and right. Love isn't necessarily the world, but it isn't miniscule either. It's anything but miniscule, and yet it's refined detail. But that's not fact or fiction. That's just what I've learned over the last few hours.
And it took me sixteen years to realize it.
So go listen to your favorite love song and really think: What does love mean to you? Do you love something enough to let that love go for the sake of its growth? They say distance brings two people, or two things even, closer. I can whole-heartedly relate and agree. That's why a person needs their personal space. That's why some people just need their quiet, alone time. Maybe you could appreciate that moment time, to really think. Love is not forgetting: it's the ability to let other things cross your mind.
And in the meantime, while you figure out what you want from your love for, not only for a boy, a girl, a food, or even yourself, but of life itself, check out this band that was given to me in a gorgeous playlist. The link will be posted below. I hope you guys are able to think it over, and learn so much from your love over the new year.
Love, Maura
